OCTAVIAN PALER - Avem timp

OCTAVIAN PALER
Avem timp


Avem timp pentru toate.
Sa dormim, sa alergam in dreapta si-n stanga,
sa regretam c-am gresit si sa gresim din nou,
sa-i judecam pe altii si sa ne absolvim pe noi insine,

avem timp sa citim si sa scriem,
sa corectam ce-am scris, sa regretam ce-am scris,
avem timp sa facem proiecte si sa nu le respectam,
avem timp sa ne facem iluzii si sa rascolim prin
cenusa lor mai tarziu.
Avem timp pentru ambitii si boli,
sa invinovatim destinul si amanuntele,
avem timp sa privim norii, reclamele sau un accident
oarecare, avem
timp sa ne-alungam intrebarile, sa amanam
raspunsurile, avem timp sa sfaramam un vis si sa-l
reinventam, avem timp sa ne facem prieteni,
sa-i pierdem, avem timp sa primim lectii si sa le
uitam dupa-aceea, avem timp sa primim daruri si sa nu le-ntelegem. Avem timp pentru toate.

Nu e timp doar pentru putina tandrete.
Cand sa facem si asta, murim.
Am invatat unele lucruri in viata pe care vi le
impartasesc si voua !!
Am invatat ca nu poti face pe cineva sa te iubeasca.
Tot ce poti face este sa fii o persoana iubita. Restul
… depinde de ceilalti.
Am invatat ca oricat mi-ar pasa mie Altora s-ar putea
sa nu le pese. Am invatat ca dureaza ani sa castigi
incredere si ca doar in cateva secunde poti sa o
pierzi.
Am invatat ca nu conteaza CE ai in viata Ci PE CINE
ai.
Am invatat ca te descurci si ti-e de folos farmecul
cca 15 minute
Dupa aceea, insa, ar fi bine sa stii ceva.
Am invatat ca nu trebuie sa te compari cu ceea ce pot
altii mai bine sa faca
Ci cu ceea ce poti tu sa faci.
Am invatat ca nu conteaza ce li se intampla oamenilor
Ci conteaza ceea ce pot eu sa fac pentru a rezolva >>

Am invatat ca oricum ai taia
Orice lucru are doua fete
Am invatat ca trebuie sa te desparti de cei dragi cu
cuvinte calde
S-ar putea sa fie ultima oara cand ii vezi
Am invatat ca poti continua inca mult timp
Dupa ce ai spus ca nu mai poti
Am invatat ca eroi sunt cei care fac ce trebuie, cand
trebuie
Indiferent de consecinte
Am invatat ca sunt oameni care te iubesc
Dar nu stiu s-o arate
Am invatat ca atunci cand sunt suparat am DREPTUL sa
fiu suparat
Dar nu am dreptul sa fiu si rau
Am invatat ca prietenia adevarata continua sa existe
chiar si la
distanta
Iar asta este valabil si pentru iubirea adevarata
Am invatat ca, daca cineva nu te iubeste cum ai vrea
tu
Nu inseamna ca nu te iubeste din tot sufletul.
Am invatat ca indiferent cat de bun iti este un
prieten
Oricum te va rani din cand in cand
Iar tu trebuie sa-l ierti pentru asta.
Am invatat ca nu este intotdeauna de ajuns sa fi
iertat de altii
Cateodata trebuie sa inveti sa te ierti pe tine insuti

Am invatat ca indiferent cat de mult suferi,
Lumea nu se va opri in loc pentru durerea ta.
Am invatat ca trecutul si circumstantele ti-ar putea
influenta
personalitatea
Dar ca TU esti responsabil pentru ceea ce devii
Am invatat ca, daca doi oameni se cearta, nu inseamna
ca nu se iubesc
Si nici faptul ca nu se cearta nu dovedeste ca se
iubesc.
Am invatat ca uneori trebuie sa pui persoana pe primul
loc
Si nu faptele sale
Am invatat ca doi oameni pot privi acelasi lucru
Si pot vedea ceva total diferit
Am invatat ca indiferent de consecinte
Cei care sunt cinstiti cu ei insisi ajung mai departe
in viata

Am invatat ca viata iti poate fi schimbata in cateva
ore
De catre oameni care nici nu te cunosc. Am invatat ca si atunci cand crezi ca nu mai ai nimic de dat
Cand te striga un prieten vei gasi puterea de a-l
ajuta.
Am invatat ca scrisul
Ca si vorbitul
Poate linisti durerile sufletesti
Am invatat ca oamenii la care tii cel mai mult
Iti sunt luati prea repede…
Am invatat ca este prea greu sa-ti dai seama
Unde sa tragi linie intre a fi amabil, a nu rani
oamenii si a-ti sustine parerile.
Am invatat sa iubesc
Ca sa pot sa fiu iubit.






OCTAVIAN PALER

We have time

We have time for everything
Sleep, run back and forth,
regret we made a mistake and err again
judge others and absolve ourselves,
we have time to read and write,
edit what we wrote, regret what we wrote,
we have time to make projects and never follow through
we have time to dwell in illusions and stir through
their ashes much later.
We have time for ambitions and diseases,
to blame destiny and details,
we have time to look at the clouds, at the ads, or
some accident, we have time
to chase away our questions, postpone our answers, we
have time
to crush a dream and reinvent it, we have time to make
friends,
to lose them, we have time to take lessons and forget
them
soon after, we have time to receive gifts and not
understand them. We have time for everything.
No time, though, for a little tenderness.
When we’re about to do that, too, we die.
I learnt some things in life that I want to share with
you!!!

I learnt you can’t make somebody love you. All you can
do is be a beloved person. The rest…depends on the
others.
I learnt that however much I care,
Others might not care at all.
I learnt that it takes years to gain trust and that
you can lose it in just a few seconds.
I learnt that it doesn’t matter WHAT you have in life,
but WHOM.
I learnt you can get by and your charm is useful for
about 15 minutes. After that, however, you’d better
know something.
I learnt that you should not compare yourself to what
others can do better–
But to what you can do better.
I learnt that it doesn’t matter what happens to people
But what I can do to help them.
I learnt that no matter how you cut it,
Every thing has two faces.
I learnt you need to part with your loved ones with
warm words,
It might be the last time you see them.
I learnt that you can carry on for a long time
After you said you can’t.
I learnt that the heroes are those who do what’s
needed, when needed,
No matter what the consequences.
I learnt that there are people who love you,
But don’t know how to show it.
I learnt that when I am angry, I have THE RIGHT to be
angry.
But I don’t have the right to be a bastard, too.
I learnt that true friendship continues to exist even
at a distance. And this is also true for real love.
I learnt that, if somebody doesn’t love you like you
want them to,
It doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all their
heart.
I learnt that no matter how good a friend is,
He will nevertheless hurt you every once in a while,
And you’ve got to forgive him for this.
I learnt that it’s not always enough to be forgiven by
others.
Sometimes you’ve got to learn to forgive yourself
I learn that no matter how much you suffer,
The world won’t stop in its tracks because of your
pain.

I learnt that your past and circumstances might
influence your personality
But YOU are responsible for what you become.
I learnt that if two people argue, it doesn’t mean
they don’t love each other
And the fact that they don’t argue doesn’t prove they
love each other.
I learnt that sometimes you’ve got to put a person
first,
And not his deeds.
I learnt that two people can look at the same thing
And see two completely different things
I learnt that no matter what the consequences
Those who are honest with themselves go farther in
life. I learnt that your life can change in the course of a
few hours
By people who don’t even know you.
I learnt that when you think you’ve got nothing to
give
When a friend calls for you, you’ll find the strength
to help him.
I learnt that writing,
Just like talking,
Can soothe the pain in your soul.
I learnt the the people you love the most
Are taken away from you much too soon.
I learnt that it’s too hard to realize
Where to draw a line between being nice, not hurting
people, and standing up for your beliefs.
I learnt to love
So I can be loved.
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